Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
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Q. Is that you in the pics?
A. Oui.
Q. Do you really enjoy this work?
A. It’s been a calling and somewhat of a spiritual undertaking as I believe sexuality is sacred. I take pleasure in finding a connection with my clients.
Q. What is FBSM?
A. Full body massage with a sensual component. Since it’s a grey area, I don't discuss details (see below for what is not offered in my sessions). But if you google it, note that the definition you'll find is crude, yet typical of what many practitioners provide. Whereas, I approach this practice as the holistic artform it once was regarded as by priestesses, long before the modern age.
Q. What is Tantra?
A. I tend to maintain a pantheistic view of the world. Beyond this perspective I do not claim to have a deep knowledge of the philosophy of Tantra. While I can incorporate some Tantric techniques into the session, if you wish to gain an understanding of this ancient, mystical path,
I highly suggest reading anything written by Daniel Odier to start.
Q. What is the difference between your FBSM and Tantra sessions?
A. The Tantric technique I guide you through (using breath, sound, muscle control, and eye contact) can help to raise your threshold for pleasure and result in a more full body experience.
With the FBSM, there is no effort required on your part except to leave the outside world behind, relax and receive.
Other than that, they are very similar, and both include subtle energy work (see 'Sexual Shaman' under training below).
Q. What is ASMR?
A. 'Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response' is a unique blend of creativity, sensory engagement, and neurobiology.
Specific sounds—such as soft whispers, tapping, slow sensual breathing, etc.—trigger a pleasurable tingling sensation, typically starting at the scalp and moving down the body.
Beyond sound, gentle hand movements and other nuanced gestures can be used to induce relaxation. Research suggests ASMR activates the brain’s reward system, releasing endorphins or oxytocin for a sense of well-being.
This phenomenon is both an art and a science:
The art lies in the intimate, precise delivery of these sounds and nuances, while the science explores its calming effects and potential for stress relief.
Q. I see you offer hypnosis? Q. Do you offer 'full service', 'French', fantasy, fetish, toys, roleplay, kink, Domination, or 'Dark Tantra'?
Q. Do you offer meet & greets?
Q. Do you offer outcall?
Q. Do you see women or couples?
Q. What length of session do you recommend for a first-time visit?
Q. Do you accept credit cards? Q. Do you accept tips? Q. Where are you from and what is your nationality? Q. Why do you have an Indian name?
Q. Is weight, age, or race an issue?
Q. Your rates are higher than most.
Q. What does YMMV mean?
Q. Can we be friends / hang out sometime? Q. Who are your 'Intuitive Ally' phone or video sessions meant for?
Q. Tell me more about your training, background, and what to expect.
A. Professionally trained in RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) and 5-Path hypnosis, I specialize in the inner journey, cord-cutting, and pattern interrupt aspects of it combined with the medium of massage as opposed to a more traditional approach. My favorite is blending ASMR with hypnosis.
A. Beyond the intrisic element of 'tease-and-denial' that my artform naturally entails, no to all of the above and zero interest.
A. If you'd like an icebreaker, you can book 30 or 60 min of social time, offered at my incall (see services page).
Cavaet; sessions take priority, thus meet & greets may be subject to short-notice rescheduling.
A. Currently yes but not to residences. Further details can be found on the services page. Incall is always my preference.
A. Women yes, but only as of recently so my experience is relatively limited. Couples sessions are possible as well and I've added this option with further details to the services page.
In either case, call and we can discuss to see if it’s a good fit.
A. Personally, I find the 2 hour option which includes 30 minutes of social time to be the most enjoyable (option to add an additional 30 min for an hour total of social time). Otherwise the 60, 75, and 90 are all the same, there's just more time for massage the longer we go.
When offered, the 30 and 45 min sessions are abbreviated and only recommended if it's more convenient for you (they're not always available, services page details are kept up-to-date).
For women, I recommend no less than 75 minutes, 60 is the minimum but it may not give us enough time. First-time visits for women and couples include 30 min social time to ensure the best experience. Length of sessions for couples can be determined when we schedule.
A. Not at this time. Forms of currency I accept are cash (preferred), cashapp, venmo, digital Amazon gift card (inquire first), YouPay, and bitcoin. Let me know when scheduling if you prefer bitcoin, as it can take time to process so must be sent in advance.
A. Gratuity is always appreciated though never expected. You might alternatively consider donating to an environmental or wildlife cause.
A. Raised in Connecticut, I am of mostly of Russian and German heritage. A descendant of the late great Jascha Heifetz, I think of him as my spirit guide.
A. Parvati is the Hindu goddess of love, therefore I chose her name as my spiritual alias.
A. No, nor are looks important. Impeccable hygiene however is a must!
A. At the time of this writing I have over fourteen years of practical experience and continuing education in the field of bodywork. I strive to set the highest standard and my rates reflect that.
A. "Your Mileage May Vary- catch all phrase to remind that tastes differ, reviews are inherently subjective, and that providers have good and bad days, thus experiences vary." Excerpted from the adult glossary.
A. The work I do is highly interpersonal, relatively intimate, and I consider myself a [non-traditional] therapist. While I adore my clients and it shows, blurring the lines is an awkward proposition for me. So I'll generally just ignore the question. I have a small, close-knit circle of long-time friends outside of my professional life and prefer to keep it that way.
A. This is for women, men, non-binary, trans, anyone of any age who is seeking insight, guidance, comfort, connection, or even just a listening ear.
A bit about my background and why I started offering this; I put myself through massage school doing intuitive readings for two years until I became a full-time LMT. I was later certified as a life coach with Seattle Life Coach Training (SLCT). I didn't particularly resonate with the smorgasborg of techniques we learned, as my strongsuit and interest is active listening.
I went on to pursue training in The Three Principles by Sydney Banks, but because it cannot be paired with anything else per their rules, I opted not to get my certification. That said, the teachings are profound and laid the foundation for my bigger picture perspective of how things work. I've also received a number of mentoring sessions in this and other modalities to uncover and work through various blind spots and self-imposed limitations.
Being that nearly half my sessions begin with social time and people often report getting a lot out of our talks (I too enjoy these conversations immensely), I decided to take advantage of all my years of experience and add this as an option to be made as widely available as possible. After all, what good are inherent gifts and learned talents if not shared?
A. With regards to bodywork, I incorporate a blend of elements gleaned from my repertoire of studies listed below. Most notably, Sexual Shaman techniques are coupled with Esalen-like massage to deepen your sense of mind-body-spirit connection through the medium of pleasure, for an experience that is Tantric in nature.
