Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
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Q. Is that you in the pics?
A. Oui.
Q. Do you really enjoy this work?
A. It’s been a calling and somewhat of a spiritual undertaking as I believe sexuality is sacred. I take pleasure in finding a connection with my clients.
Q. What is FBSM?
A. Full body massage with a sensual component. Since it’s a grey area, I don't discuss details (see below for what is not offered in my sessions). But if you google it, note that the definition you'll find is crude, yet typical of what many practitioners provide. Whereas, I approach this practice as the holistic artform it once was regarded as by priestesses, long before the modern age.
Q. What is Tantra?
A. I tend to maintain a pantheistic view of the world. Beyond this perspective I do not claim to have a deep knowledge of the philosophy of Tantra. While I can incorporate some Tantric techniques into the session, if you wish to gain an understanding of this ancient, mystical path,
I highly suggest reading anything written by Daniel Odier to start.
Q. What is the difference between your FBSM and Tantra sessions?
A. The Tantric technique I guide you through (using breath, sound, muscle control, and eye contact) can help to raise your threshold for pleasure and result in a more full body experience.
With the FBSM, there is no effort required on your part except to leave the outside world behind, relax and receive.
Other than that, they are very similar, and both include subtle energy work (see 'Sexual Shaman' under training below).
Q. What is ASMR?
A. 'Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response' is a unique blend of creativity, sensory engagement, and neurobiology.
Specific sounds—such as soft whispers, tapping, slow sensual breathing, etc.—trigger a pleasurable tingling sensation, typically starting at the scalp and moving down the body.
Beyond sound, gentle hand movements and other nuanced gestures can be used to induce relaxation. Research suggests ASMR activates the brain’s reward system, releasing endorphins or oxytocin for a sense of well-being.
This phenomenon is both an art and a science:
The art lies in the intimate, precise delivery of these sounds and nuances, while the science explores its calming effects and potential for stress relief.
Q. I see you offer hypnosis?
A. Yes, I put my own spin on it but am professionally trained in RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) and 5-Path hypnosis.
Q. Do you see women or couples?
A. Not at this time.
Q. Do you offer 'full service', 'French', fantasy, fetish, toys, roleplay, kink, Domination, or 'Dark Tantra'?
A. Beyond the intrisic element of 'tease-and-denial' that my artform naturally entails, no to all of the above and zero interest.
Q. Do you offer meet & greets?
A. If you'd like an icebreaker, you can book 30 min of social time, offered at my incall (see services page).
Cavaet; sessions take priority, thus meet & greets may be subject to short-notice rescheduling.
Q. Do you accept credit cards?
A. Not at this time.
Q. Do you accept tips?
A. Gratuity is always appreciated though never expected. You might alternatively consider donating to an environmental or wildlife cause.
Q. Do you offer outcall?
A. Currently yes but not to residences. Incall is always my preference.
Q. Where are you from and what is your nationality?
A. Raised in Connecticut, I am of Russian and German heritage. A descendant of the late great Jascha Heifetz, I think of him as my spirit guide.
Q. Why do you have an Indian name?
A. Parvati is the Hindu goddess of love, therefore I chose her name as my spiritual alias.
Q. Is weight, age, or race an issue?
A. No, nor are looks important. Impeccable hygiene however is a must!
Q. Your rates are higher than most.
A. At the time of this writing I have over fourteen years of practical experience and continuing education in the field of bodywork. I strive to set the highest standard and my rates reflect that.
Q. What does YMMV mean?
A. "Your Mileage May Vary- catch all phrase to remind that tastes differ, reviews are inherently subjective, and that providers have good and bad days, thus experiences vary." Excerpted from the adult glossary.
Q. Can we be friends / hang out sometime?
A. The work I do is highly interpersonal, relatively intimate, and I consider myself a [non-traditional] therapist. While I adore my clients and it shows, blurring the lines is an awkward proposition for me. So I'll generally just ignore the question. I have a small, close-knit circle of long-time friends outside of my professional life and prefer to keep it that way.
Q. Tell me more about your training, background, and what to expect.
A. I incorporate a blend of elements gleaned from my repertoire of studies listed below. Most notably, Sexual Shaman techniques are coupled with Esalen-like massage to deepen your sense of mind-body-spirit connection through the medium of pleasure, for an experience that is Tantric in nature.
